Gay Bondage Gear / Tips for Beginners

Updated: Mar 6

Most gay men / couple like to get most of their sex with a partner. While standard sex is enough to get the blood flowing to the loins for many, some people like to mix things up. One kinky option partners might consider is bondage, a sex practice in which one partner is physically restrained in some way. There are a few things beginners would do well to know before breaking out the chains.


During a bondage session, one partner is restrained in order to limit his or her ability to move or participate actively in sexual play. Usually, the wrists are bound with handcuffs, scarves, rope or some other device; they may be hooked to a bedpost or other nearby sturdy object, or they can simply be bound behind the back or held above the head. Advanced forms of bondage, such as binding of the ankles or securing of the whole body in some manner, are also possible.

Along with physical restraints, bondage often involves a component of sensory deprivation. This is usually done by removing sight from the bound partner's experience; blindfolds tend to be used for this purpose.


Lovers who are just beginning their journey into bondage play may want to start small and slow, considering that both will be feeling out their comfort levels. It's important to have a lot of trust and respect in the relationship to ensure that boundaries aren't crossed and that communication is constant.

It's a good idea to choose softer restraint methods at first, such as padded cuffs, since ropes, chains and metal cuffs can cause pain that might not be desired. Along with padded restraints and a blindfold, couples should invest in a soft teaser device; the unbound partner can use this to tease and stimulate the bound partner, slowly driving him or her wild with desire. As bondage play becomes more familiar, couples can talk about adding in new elements if they so choose.


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